I lived and worked in New York City for 14 years. Before I moved there, I had always heard about rude New Yorkers, and I believed that. I had never been to the city until I had to move there for a new job.
What I discovered surprised me. First, New Yorkers are not rude, they’re in a hurry. It’s a crowded, busy city and getting anywhere is a big chore which New Yorkers endure on a daily basis. So, if they seem impatient or short tempered, this is why. Secondly, New Yorkers are some of the nicest, kindest people I have ever met. When I first moved there, I got lost and confused all the time. Without exception, the New Yorkers that I stopped with a question were very pleasant. In fact, several actually walked me to where I was going. I learned to walk quickly.
This article in Travel + Leisure really hit home, and I hope you take it in the spirit in which it’s offered: good, practical advice.
Most people learn to walk before they’re two years old—and then forget as soon as they arrive in New York. At least, that’s how it seems to those of us who must dodge, drift, and dart down the sidewalks daily as we try not to bump into the millions of tourists who visit each year. We also, in the interest of being good ambassadors for our city, must stifle our scatological outbursts when you step on our toes or cause us to leap into the street to pass you by. So if you want to fit in and avoid dirty looks, do us, and yourself, a favor and follow a few simple rules.
And please don’t take any of this the wrong way. We want you to visit New York, see the shows, eat at the restaurants, support the museums and galleries. Sometimes your smiles and awestruck skyward gazes help us remember the magic of the city that we’re lucky to call home. So go ahead and walk. Walk a lot. But after you’ve spent your money, checked the famous sights off your list, and walked so much you have blisters, do just one more thing: visit us again. But only after you’ve learned the basic rules of how to walk in New York.